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Elizabeth Anderson
MFT Registered Intern

Scary thoughts can feel overwhelming at times as well as feeling quite real. I want to acknowledge how scary they can... more

Sherry Katz
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

I'm sorry you're going through this problem of scary thoughts in your mind. None of us are able to directly stop... more

Kristi King-Morgan, LMSW
Social Worker, Psychotherapist

I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. Divorce can be so disruptive in a child's life. I'd really need a lot... more

Sherry Katz
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

Have you told either of your parents that the current house rotation of where you stay, bothers you? Since each parent... more

Frank Walker
I help couples manage the bumpy road called marriage. Whether your marriage needs a tune up, a major overhaul or just a flat tire changed. I can help.

OK first things first. We have to think of your safety and take care of those thoughts of hurting yourself. Yes, this is... more

Robin Landwehr, DBH, LPCC, NCC
Mental Health in a Primary Care Setting

Hello, and thank you for your question. Overcoming fears is something that everyone struggles with at one time or... more

Kristi King-Morgan, LMSW
Social Worker, Psychotherapist

Biologically, fear is designed to protect us from harm. Fear is not always a bad thing, and in fact can be quite healthy... more

Cory Ian Shafer LPC
Psychotherapist, Jungian, Hypnotherapy

Fears are not that difficult to deal with, first you need to train yourself to relax using some relaxation strategy... more

Virginia Chow
Theraspace

I agree with Sherry that in a close intimate relationship, you are entitled to ask questions about his relationship with... more

Elizabeth Anderson
MFT Registered Intern

I think honesty is the right approach in this situation. Share with him that you looked at his phone, as well as sharing... more

Sherry Katz
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

If you'd like to ask a question, then go ahead and ask! Boyfriend/girlfriend is a close relationship and it is usually... more

Virginia Chow
Theraspace

Hello. You are asking a very good question about how to sustain a long-distance relationship. Although maintaining a... more

Lauren Ostrowski, MA, LPC, NCC, DCC, CCTP
I tailor my therapeutic approach to each client's strengths and goals

You're right that long-distance relationships can be complicated. If he loves you and you love him, that's a great start... more

Sherry Katz
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

You're wise to be aware of possible changes to your relationship once your bf is away from you for extended time periods... more

Tamara Powell
Anything But Ordinary!

As someone who specializes in sexuality and polyamory, I can tell you that your experience is incredibly common. It can... more

Robin Landwehr, DBH, LPCC, NCC
Mental Health in a Primary Care Setting

Hello, and thank you for your question. Nervousness, when doing something new, especially something sexual that can feel... more

Keith Hughes
Relationships, Depression & Anxiety, Spiritual

Hello there.  As you have courageously explained your soulful dilemma. I can appreciate the complexity of this situation... more

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