Relationships

I understand that this can be difficult when you care about someone. Have you had a discussion with your mom as to why she does not want you and this boy to see each other, and what her concerns are? It sounds as though you and your mom may be able to use some help with communicating, and... more

I've been in this situation before and have some insight to share with you. In my experience, he was lying and trying to cover it up. By pushing you to std testing, he's distracting you so he can shift the guilt he feels and blame it on you. In a guilty man's mind I believe he's thinking-...if I... more

This may not be the answer that you want to hear, but it will be impossible for you to be certain of whether or not your spouse had sex unless they tell you that they remember they did. In order to elicit the most honest response, it is important that you give your partner a safe, nonjudgmental... more

I think if a person asked for a STD test there is a high chance that something happen. I would go with your gut.

Surprisingly, humans often have other desires and interests in people beside our partners. This is, in fact, normal and the crush alone is no cause for concern. People are able to have these desires while at the same time choosing not to act on them based on their values or commitment to their... more

Knowing if you should stay or if you should go is one of the most difficult questions in relationships. I imagine if you are asking this question you are experiencing pain, confusion, and frustration. All of these things are difficult to manage, but know that you are not alone in those feelings. So... more

The decision to end an relationship, especially after 4 years, is not easy and it takes courage. So, good for you for taking that leap with courage! As you mentioned, you truly believe you did the right thing, and that says a lot about your self-awareness and courage to make difficult decisions... more

I'd wonder first if you were still in the same home and neighborhood where you raised your son and experienced the abuse? In many ways, we react to our environments - and if you're still surrounded by neighbors who didn't reach out when they heard your ex yelling or offer assistance and resources... more

Take small steps each day. Go around a few people, take a walk, and smile or wave at others. Strike up a conversation in the grocery aisle. Think of topics you enjoy and would like to share, could talk about, to break the ice. Maybe call some friends you once had and reconnect. Go at a pace that... more