Should I be concerned that my boyfriend will not introduce me to a female friend

He goes out with her to dinner/brunch/movies when we are not together (we live 2 hours apart).

Rebecca Wong
Rebecca Wong
Relationship Therapist & Connectfulness Consultant

Would you have the same desire to meet this friend if she were a he? If you are concerned that their friendship is a substitute for you when you aren't present, talk to him. It sounds like you are concerned that he is building an emotional intimacy with her and spending time doing the sort of things with her that you'd otherwise be doing with him. Help him understand why this bothers you but try to also be open to allowing him to make friends. Is the issue that he hasn't introduced you? Is there another reason you don't trust their friendship? 

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