How do I discuss my fetishes with wife when she is very sexually passive and insecure?

Sherry Katz, LCSW
Sherry Katz, LCSW
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

Do  you know whether the reason your wife is sexually passive and insecure is due to your fetishes?

Maybe she'd be very turned on by your fetishes.

Try to not mix up your hesitancy to speak about your fetishes which she hasn't yet directly heard from you, with your assumption that her sexual passivity necessarily means she will reject or withdraw from you when you speak of your fetishes to her.

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