What should I do after finding my boyfriend flirting on dating websites?

I found the guy I’m dating on dating websites. He was telling women that they were beautiful. He said it wasn’t him and that the phone was hacked. It has since happened two other times. He says he loves me and I’m the only girl he wants to be with, but I feel he is not telling me the truth.

Sherry Katz, LCSW
Sherry Katz, LCSW
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

Tell him what you know and ask why he is lying to you.   

If he tells you he isn't lying and you have proof that he is, then you can either accept that he denies the truth or not.

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