Do I text, call, or make contact first, the same day of the morning I left his house?

I've known him for about six years. We've dated off and on. I hadn't seen him in close to three years but recently started seeing him again. I really want this to last this time. I stayed the night. Do I text, call, or make contact first, the same day of the morning I left his house?

Sherry Katz, LCSW
Sherry Katz, LCSW
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

It is possible your question reflects some insecurity about whether or not either or you would like this relationship to continue.

Otherwise, the answer to your question would appear naturally.  If you genuinely feel close enough to this person to sleep with him, then who texts whom first, wouldn't really matter too much.

Try to understand within yourself whether you feel truly interested in this person as much as you would like to feel toward someone.

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