What can I do about my fiancé putting his family first before our family?

My fiancé of 15 years is always helping out his family, and I feel like his family takes advantage of his kindness. We're about to get married this Saturday, but I feel like he is always gonna put them first instead of myself and our three kids. I am not enjoying our engagement at all.

Sherry Katz, LCSW
Sherry Katz, LCSW
Couples and Family Therapist, LCSW

Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

Have you told the thoughts you write here, to your fiancé ?

This is the place to start since you clearly are unhappy with a part of his and now your life, which will be with you for quite some time.

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